‘Hat Hair’ and the Economy

“May I speak to Mr. Litowitz?”

“Speaking.”

“This is Stacey with (blah, blah, blah). I need to inform you this call is an attempt to collect a debt. Any information obtained from this conversation will be used for that purpose.”

Well, isn’t that sweet. I’m a fan of the Cleveland Browns and purchase dinner off McDonald’s Dollar Menu. Own four CDs – Billy Joel, DEVO, Gordon Lightfoot and John Denver (technically, my wife’s) – and a DVD of the Boardman High Marching Band performing “Script Ohio.” Perhaps that will assist you in your debt-collecting efforts.

Instead, I respond, “I’ll be making the payment on your Internet site.”

Once or twice every so often, I am late paying a bill.

This angers the company’s CEO. The chief e-mails upper management, which leads to threatening memos regarding Account 4132638H3C. Ever the team player, the collections department head berates Stacey for my failure to shell out $72.39 on time.

I pity her. Perhaps, she will receive a portion of my late fee as a bonus. Sadly, I assume the funds are forwarded to the CEO’s mistress or for his country club fees.

Notice the money swirling around? Debts owed. Company wages. Computer server maintenance. Disposable income.

Witness the economy in action. Effects vary from person to person.

Allow me to share the most important lesson I learned in my one and only college econ course: “Take your ball cap off in class.”

Apparently, the professor wasn’t a Cincinnati Reds fan or thought it disrespectful to wear it inside the confines of Debartolo Hall. Removing the cap, I unleashed hideous “hat hair” upon 70 mortified students.

This is what I think the topics that were covered while suffering Coiffure Trauma.

*Money supply (Important to have money. Lots better than less.)
*Macro economics (The study of big businesses with large profits that are too big to fail)
*Micro economics (Charting small businesses and their dismal survival rate)
*Accounting (The art of manufacturing financial statements to fit a corporation’s needs)
*Recession (Taking a pay reduction to keep your job)
*Depression (Losing your job when pay reductions fail)

Washington’s “fiscal cliff” – where Wall Street implodes and the Federal Reserve runs out of cash – does not play in Youngstown, Ohio. We have no cliffs.

You will find fiscal buildings – better known as banks, credit unions and payday loan offices. Jumping off one of these structures may result in broken bones.

There are fiscal hills – roads Mahoning County residents use and have the word “hill” in it. Oak Hill, Squirrel Hill and Hill Street. Falling off these hills is equivalent to running into traffic.

We can discuss fiscal bluffs – maneuvers poker players perform. (Not to suggest illegal gambling occurs here.) Try it one too many times, and you may get punched or shot.

Fiscal ditches are abundant countywide – where poker players punched or shot are found.

The Congress might want to think about the above as it smacks the nation around with its posturing over the country’s financial health. Throughout the years, Red and Blue states have evolved as a means of exploiting the differences among voters. Mix those two colors and you have purple. When you have been beaten by Republican and Democrat legislators alike, the purple bruises are evident.

Ultimately, this leads to the fiscal heap – a place where ousted members of the Senate and House of Representatives find themselves for treating the economy as a perverted Monopoly game.

Somehow, I passed my econ class with a “C” – despite the “hat hair” trauma. Still it’s a better effort than Congress’.

A “Very Brady Christmas” Real-Time Facebook Commentary

Pat Litowitz: Oh the hijinks. Carol is taking Mike to Greece, but it’s a surprise. Get this, Mike is surprising Carol with a trip to Japan. Wait for it – the money is coming from the “special vacation account.” Mike gets to the money first and leaves Carol with $8. Carol embarrassed.

And, gasp, Sam the Butcher, that no good rump roast, left Alice. What's worse – I know, how could it get worse – I think Cindy had a face-lift (or it’s a “replacement” Cindy). I don't know how the family will survive. And, well, I'm a little shocked that the Brady kids have procreated. Trip’s off. Calling all Bradys home.

Pat Litowitz: Just learned Marcia's husband, Wally, lost his job, and Carol's real estate client is upset with Mike – who is the architect on the project – over safety issues. Now the kids are fighting about going home. I'm concerned.

FB Friend One: I watched it too! What I couldn't get over was how dorky they seem now when I hung on the Bradys' every word as a kid LOL

Pat Litowitz: Seems Mike is drinking a little more wine than usual.

Pat Litowitz: FB Friend One, this is real life. Hee. Hee.

Pat Litowitz: Mike just lost his contract. Peter is making out with his boss in her office. Dominatrix. That's all I'm saying. Oh great, Bobby left grad school. Jan is such a bitch. Greg is a doctor – boring.

Pat Litowitz: Pizza Hut commercial.

FB Friend Two: Whores!!

Pat Litowitz: Looks like Marcia's husband is hugging Mrs. B a little too long. Also, he's showing off chest hair.

Pat Litowitz: Second Pizza Hut commercial. Appears I can get better job by attending ITT.

Pat Litowitz: Tree decorations with strings of popcorn. Now Wally and Bobby telling lies and Alice crying. Obnoxious grandkids. Jan's husband is an ass. Wally and Marcia sleeping in separate beds. Jan making husband sleep in pullout filing cabinet. Bobby's secret life as racecar driver exposed.

Pat Litowitz: Peter wearing floor-length pajamas. Now all the kids are sharing their secrets. Cindy wants to be treated as an adult. Get over yourself.

Pat Litowitz: Cheerios commercial. www.shoemint.com

Pat Litowitz: Uh oh, looks like bitch Jan and ass hubby starting to make up. Pie eating with Brady boys and Wally in kitchen. Carol senses something wrong with kids. Mike poo poos her.

FB Friend Three: Stop talking about my relatives like that...lol

Pat Litowitz: Jan fesses up about pending divorce. Now they’re back in love and horny. Mom Brady suggests it’s OK for them to have sex. Wally getting new job.

Pat Litowitz: Silk ties $25 at JCP. Tryschoolconnection.com – get e-book.

Pat Litowitz: Mike's speech at dinner table – "We're family." Now everyone is confessing. Alice wonders where pies are. Cindy whining about not being treated as adult. Carol responds. Cindy asked to sit at big table. She declines. Pies still missing. Bobby comes out to family – “It's what I need to do." Simultaneous marriage proposal between Dominatrix and Peter. Everyone happy. Pie mystery continues.

Pat Litowitz: Phone call. Cave in at construction site. Mike needed.

Pat Litowitz: Specials at Macy's. Price match at Toys R Us. Third Pizza Hut commercial.

Pat Litowitz: Two men trapped. TV crew on scene. Mike goes after them. (The men not the TV crew.) Two men emerge from wreckage. Mike still in wreckage. TV crew back on air. *Brady flashback* (Back to reality.) Carol sings. Family sings. Mike safe.

Merry Christmas everyone!

Pat Litowitz: P.S. Sam and Alice back together. God bless us all.

FB Friend Four: You enjoyed that wayyyyy tooooo much!!

A Letter to Daughter on the Occasion of Her Parents' 26th Wedding Anniversary

Daughter,

I walked the aisles of Wal-Mart early this morning to purchase an anniversary card for your Mother.

I poked through the food department noticing the fat-free strawberry yogurt and ice cream sandwiches. Then there was the electronics section nearby. (Netbook. That’s all I’m saying.) The aroma of brand-new tires carried me to the automotive department. I may have passed sporting goods and along the way thought about picking up health supplements. (Me. Health supplements. Yeah, I laughed, too.)

Ta Dah! Greeting cards.

Surprisingly, Wal-Mart does not stock “Happy 26th Anniversary” cards. Although tempted by the talking “Luke, I am your father” Star Wars card, I believe Mother will be happy with my selection.

And each day, I am thankful your Mother selected me.

Here’s a little secret. I was the Rebound Guy. We don’t get the girl.

I asked Mother out the first time we met, Oct. 6, 1982. It was a Wednesday. We were working the afternoon shift at Arby’s. So far. So good. So you would think.

Missed our first date because I was studying for a calculus final. The second “first” date was a disaster. I may have taken her to a jewelry store in the mall and may have asked the clerk to look at engagement rings. Cartwheels. Really should leave that incident alone. Fuzzy about the whole experience.

And the list goes on. I tried too hard to impress. Even I wasn’t surprised when she eventually told me she needed breathing room.

Then the craziest thing happened. Two weeks later, she phoned and asked me out. She joked that she called a number of people and I was the only one to answer.

That’s OK though. She was taking me to the movies and I could choose the film as long as I bought the popcorn. This was promising.

We arrived at the Warren Twin Cinema, where movies were a dollar. “Snow White and the Seven Dwarves” was playing and God knows what else. I picked “Snow White.” Yeah, that screams “Over here! Pick me! I deserve a second chance!”

After the movie, we headed to Taco Bell. We talked and talked and talked. She was wonderful, and I wanted her to know how special she was. That was when the Rebound Guy became The Man.

Today, Mother and I mark 26 years of marriage. Know what? It feels like yesterday. That’s the neat thing about love. When you find the right person, who needs to keep track of time?

Meet the Non-Jew Jew

Plenty of questions accompanied the hugs when Bubbie my grandmother and Zaidey my grandfather reunited with their First-Born Grandson after 20 years.

”We have to plan your bar mitzvah,” Zaidey said not long into the conversation. “When would be a good time to start?”

(Crickets chirping. Awkward silence. Mouth moving but no words. Quick. Do something. Smile. Yes, smile. No, smiling too hard.)

Never saw that one coming.

“What have you been doing?” “Tell us about the Wife.” “When will we meet out Great-Granddaughter?” Those I expected.

Bar mitzvah? Conversation and bagels may have been a better way to ease into the topic. Perhaps a bowl of matzo ball soup.

Confused? You should be. But here’s a Pat-at-Birth primer to help.

*Protestant Mother and Jewish Father marry.

*Mother and Father procreate. (Read below for full explanation. NOT ABOUT THE SEX but what happens with Mother. Perverts.)

*Mother and Father divorce.

*Mother obtains custody.

*Little, if any, contact from Father, Grandparents, Aunt or Uncle. (The "Why?" is up for debate.) However, Aunt Canada keeps in touch the entire time.

To understand Zaidey’s excitement and sense of urgency, we need to talk about a party -- a celebration that must have been a doozy.

One photo captures two relatives holding an infant -- me -- and smiling.

Might have blacked out, because I don’t remember a thing. Long assumed someone laced a fingertip with Manischewitz wine and stuck it in my mouth.

And, get this, a stranger took a knife to … uh … umm … my manhood, which really wasn’t so manly at the time. Yes, I was circumcised.

Welcome to the ’60s. Welcome to my bris.

For the curious few, my birthday occurred 13 days in Adar 5724. Although Feb. 26 works just as well. I’m fairly confident Hallmark never issued an “Adar by Far You Are the Star” birthday card. Then again, I don’t read Hebrew.

The bris takes place eight days after the child’s birth. Did mine? Not a clue.

That day I received my Hebrew name – Pesech-Elisha Ben Shmuel – and was bestowed with the Hebrew version of Willie Wonka’s Golden Ticket. It’s a certificate signed by a rabbi stating I was “a member of the holy family of Israel.”

In other words, I became a Jew that day.

Except it’s a lie or it may be true. The events took place but the interpretation is at issue.

Zaidey, the officiating rabbi and the mohel (aka “The Cutter”) signed off on the deal. (I have the “official” circumcision certificate.) However, the remainder of Father’s family and every Jewish denomination (including Jews for Jesus) say “Guess again, Gentile Boy.”

Mother’s side never knew what to make of it all.

“So, are you Jewish?” A question Mother’s family often asked. The last time was on Thanksgiving.

The Jewish bloodline works likes this – Mom: Jew. You: Jew.

(Repeat.)

Mom: Jew. You: Jew. Mom: Jew. You: Jew. Mom: Jew. You: Jew.

(Faster.)

Momjewyoujew. Momjewyoujew. Momjewyoujew. Momjewyoujew. Momjewyoujew.

And then a conductor shouts. “All aboard!” and shortly thereafter the engineer pulls the steam-powered Hebrew Express out of the station.

Apparently, my ticket wasn’t properly punched.

One story goes that Mother was in the process of conversion when the bris occurred. That may have opened the road to Israel. Then she opted out. Who knows? The key players -- Mother, Father, Bubbie and Zaidey -- are gone. Aunt Canada fills in some of the blanks while Mother's Baby Sis offers her version.

Who willing wants to be a Jew? The moment you are born millions of people want to terminate your existence. You are hated. Others believe you control the monetary system and Boca Raton. You become a scapegoat for crimes real and imagined. Millions don’t trust you. A majority don’t know what to make of you.

And I want to be a part of this mess why? A portion of my identity has been stripped, and I need to have resolution. Plus, Zaidey thought it was important.

So meet the Non-Jew Jew. Maybe there’s a bar mitzvah in my future. Then again, maybe not.

But who doesn’t love matzo ball soup?